32-Month-Old Child

When you have a toddler, traveling by car makes a lot of sense. Not only is it usually cheaper than buying a train or plane ticket, but there are no other passengers nearby for your toddler to annoy.

Still, it can be hard for little ones to be cooped up in a car for hours at a time. To make the ride a little smoother, you’ll want to bring as many snacks, toys and other forms of entertainment as you can. (Alas, the days of traveling light are behind you.)

Here are a few things to pack to make the ride a little smoother.

• Snacks: Bring along your toddler’s favorites, like PB&J, cheese and crackers, apple slices and plenty of bottled water. Don’t let your tot snack in her car seat while you’re driving, however, because that can be a choking hazard.

• Toys: Finger and hand puppets as well as crayons and coloring books are kid-travel essentials. Now is also the time to buy or borrow as many new or unfamiliar toys as possible. They’ll keep your tot interested for longer than her old ones (just don’t hand them all over at once).

• Music and audiobooks: Get ready for sing-along and story-time — “Baby Shark,” anyone? You may also want to let her watch episodes of her favorite shows like Sesame Street (download them in advance) on a tablet you loan her for a little while.

Once you’re on the road, take turns being in the backseat with your toddler, if you can. Alternating who’s at the wheel can help make things more interesting for grown-ups and kids alike.

If your family is complete, and you no longer want to use short-term birth control, you might be considering tubal ligation — more commonly known as “getting your tubes tied.”

Tubal ligation is a surgical procedure that prevents pregnancy by closing off a woman’s fallopian tubes. This stops the sperm from traveling up the tubes to fertilize the egg, and prevents the eggs from traveling out of the ovaries.

In the past, tubal ligation was considered major surgery. Now, it can be done as an outpatient procedure in 30 minutes.

Getting your tubes tied is permanent, however, so if you’re still on the fence about wanting another child, you may want to stick to short-term birth control.

And if tubal ligation isn’t in the cards for you and you have a husband or other male partner, a vasectomy may be in order for him instead.

Your toddler may have more than 50 or 100 words in her vocabulary by now, but that doesn’t mean that those words are always intelligible.

Toddler language slip-ups are a normal part of language development. Words that require fancy tongue maneuvers — ones with “l” and “s” sounds, for example — are difficult for toddlers, as are the “th” sounds.

As for more complicated concepts, like verbs, tenses and plurals, those skills usually won’t take off until about the age of 3.

Remember, too, that her language skills may be taking a backseat to other kinds of milestones at the moment. So if she’s working on running or climbing, perfecting her consonants may have to wait.

Children have surprisingly good mood radars — and while they may not be able to understand such a complicated situation like divorce, they are able to pick up on your stress levels, which may be understandably high.

To put them at ease during this tricky time, make an effort to give your toddler extra hugs and tell her you love her. If she sees you crying, explain that you felt sad, but give her a hug to let her know that she wasn’t the cause of it.

Look for picture books that talk about divorce, which can help your child understand what to expect when parents split up.

And try to stick to your routines as much as possible to offset some of the other changes going on in your child’s life. Don’t have any? Now might be a good time to establish a “going away” or “coming home” activity, if you’re splitting custody with your ex.

Ever wonder why your little one cracks up whenever you put a sock on your head? Or your pants on your arms? Here’s a little primer on your toddler’s sense of humor.

Starting at about 1½ years old, most toddlers think it’s hilarious when you show them something that doesn’t match up with reality — which is why brushing your hair with a spatula is sure to elicit a laugh.

As she gets older, she’ll also get a kick out of nonsense words, tongue twisters and rhymes. Just be prepared to repeat the same joke, phrase or rhyme more than once. If there’s one thing toddlers love more than silly sentences, it’s repetition.

Toddlers are naturally drawn to bright, shiny objects — and (as you’ve probably discovered by now) your iPad is no exception.

While too much screen time is always a concern for parents, there’s no evidence that using an iPad in moderation, with clear boundaries around how much time they spend and the types of shows they’re watching, will interfere with your toddler’s cognitive development. Plus, some research shows that certain apps can improve children’s vocabulary and math skills.

The benefits of iPad use aside, it’s a good idea to limit the time your child spends on it. At this age, the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends kids ages 2 to 5 cap their screen time to 1 hour per day at most of age-appropriate programming.

After all, toddlers need other forms of stimulation throughout the day — like building with blocks, dressing up a doll, and running around in the fresh air. Think of iPad or TV time as just one of many activities that you do in very small doses.

We’ve all been there — minding our own business at the bank or grocery store when suddenly our toddler points to a passing stranger and yells, “That man has a big nose!”

As mortifying as this situation may be, try to remember that your child didn’t mean any harm. (At this age, toddlers aren’t tactful or malicious.)

You can try to head off this rude behavior by telling your toddler to keep her voice down when she talks about other people or not to comment about anyone at all, at least in public. This may take some time to sink in, though — your idea of a “quiet voice” probably differs from hers.

If it’s too late, however — in this case, if the man in question has clearly overheard your toddler’s remarks — it’s time for another lesson: how to apologize.

First, offer an apology yourself, then ask your toddler to say sorry too. With any luck, she’ll remember this experience and think twice before talking about someone’s appearance again.